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Witch Weekly · September 28, 2020 – 10:58 PM

Not born with natural beauty? No need to fret! Not all men expect to marry an English Rose, nor do they all want one!

Lack Natural Beauty? Here's Five Ways to Catch a Suitor's Eye
Not every young woman is blessed with the features of an English Rose. Some are too tall, too thin; others are too broad and have a crooked nose. Some have eyes that are too large for their face, and others who have freckles covering every visible inch of skin! Fortunately for those ladies, beauty is not the only thing men value in a woman, nor is it the first thing some of them look for! Here are alternative five ways to catch a suitor's eyes:

1. Make friends with all the right people.

Every young lady, debutante or not, should have a wide selection of friends and acquaintances to use to their advantage. Married women, unmarried women, and working women alike can provide opportunities for young, unmarried ladies to meet their future husband. Married women have the advantage of knowing which of their husband's friends are and are not married, and more often than not they appreciate the chance to play matchmaker. Other unmarried ladies, despite the inherent competition that comes with befriending them, may be able to extend invitations to parties and gatherings. (They also may have an unmarried brother or two!) Working women, while not always the most respectable friends to keep, may be wiling to make introductions with their male colleagues—though their acquaintanceships with those male colleagues should be well-investigated before forming any attachments!

2. Join an interest group or charitable organization.

Charities and interest groups are not simply for socialites and older women. It is a way to form advantageous—and potentially romantic—connections while also bettering your community. If you cannot afford the membership fees that some of the organizations request, attend charity fundraisers or other events where you'll have the opportunity to meet like-minded people. It is the perfect time to show what a virtuous, caring wife you'll have the potential to be!

3. Show your intellect.

Not every man enjoys a mindless wife. If you find yourself taken with a gentleman involved in academia or a specialized field that you also take interest in, do not be afraid to say so! Most men enjoy displaying their strengths, especially to women, and would not hesitate to show you their latest work. Be warned, though: even men who prefer intelligent women do not like to be told they're wrong by one, so do not correct him even if you suspect that he is wrong. Simply smile and offer a tasteful compliment, if the opportunity presents itself.

4. Feign illness or injury.

Inside every man is the desire to be a hero. Men are protectors by nature, so swooning after a dance or conveniently forgetting your coat on a cold, windy day is sure to send the most gallant of gentlemen in your direction. Avoid nausea, stomachaches, fevers, or any other diseases that might give gentlemen a reason to avoid you.

5. Out-dress every other lady.

You need not be rich to make a statement. Being a little more fashion-forward than usual will naturally draw the attention in a room full of conservatively-dressed women. Wear the statement hat. Try for more vivid colors or a loud pattern. Make sure your outfits suits your body type and complexion, however, or you may become the laughing stock of the crowd!

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