So y'know how you have certain vague plot directions in mind for a character when you make them? Like maybe they don't have a plot but you at least have ideas for directions they might go, the types of threads you want to have, etc etc?

Sometimes these don't involve any kind of romance for me (or at least not any kind of requited romance) and then when I'm in a thread with someone and their post is like "[My character] couldn't help but notice [Lynn's character] had [some attractive quality]" I'm like nOoOoOoO they're not attractive!! stop that!!!1!

And then I go re-read their appearance section to see if there's anywhere I could be less ambiguous about it in the future >.>