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Witch Weekly · March 30, 2020 – 1:14 AM

A Lady's Advice to Attracting the Right Sort of Man
It's hard enough being suddenly thrust into society at the delicate age of eighteen; there are so many rules to abide by, names to remember, and places to be. On top of that, young ladies are also expected to secure a husband that will please both her parents while she also must attempt to please his! There are so many gentleman in the world, but much fewer who have been deemed worthy for marriage. How does the young debutante discern the true gentlemen from the rakish ones? The honorable from the selfish? It may not be easy, but there are steps you can take to make it easier!

1. Figure out the right setting.
Do you want a kind, generous husband? A charity event or auction is probably the better social event to pursue a gentleman's attention than a business networking event. Men who go to the upscale parties and aspire to outdo his fellow attendees tend to be most attention-seeking and self-centered, and men who seem to have friends at every garden party tend to be more well-liked and sociable. You would not go looking for the life of the party in a library, nor would you seek a level-headed businessman in a frivolous costumed gala!

2. Be the best version of yourself.
So many ladies try to attract a gentleman by pretending to be something they're not—and it's the worst way to go about it! We're not suggesting that you show a gentleman all of our flaws early on in an acquaintanceship; no, you merely must present the best version of yourself that you can be. That means being the friendliest you can be even if you are an introvert by nature, and being the most considerate you can be even if you tend to draw a crowd. It's a flawless way to see if you have personalities that mesh well.

3. Compliment him!
Don't be too forward, but gentleman love to be told they're better than everyone else. Shower them with attention so they know you have an interest. See how they react; if he's full of himself, he may not be worthy of your time, but a humble soul will surely shine through! Besides, there's nothing worse than devoting your heart to a man only to to find he's got unbearable flaws. If he does prove humble, you might just earn a spot in his heart!

4. Befriend his family!
Nobody knows men more than the women in their lives. Do not let them know your intentions and you may find out everything about him and his childhood! There's no better way to solidify your spot in his life than by finding an "in" with his family. If he has sisters around your age, befriend them. If he has older sisters, seek mentorship from them (and perhaps put the idea in their mind that you're a good fit for their brother)! Women of higher status love having young ladies look to them for advice, so capitalize on it!

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