When indeed. Jess was well-aware of the societal parameters they were forced to follow, not to mention familial influences on his side he was going to have to deal with, but he could handle those. "I think we should respect your mourning period." He said it lightly because he didn't really want to wait that long, but there was no need to rush, they were already engaged and that wasn't likely to change. Even his visit here tonight was not technically against the "rules," but he didn't want to push anything. Watching Kirke go through everything he was currently going through had Jesse toeing the line probably a little more closely than normal. Plus it gave him some time to find a house for them and get a few things straightened out.

"However, once that is up, we can get married however you want to." His mother's opinions be damned. If Fallon didn't want the big wedding his mother did, if she wanted something small or nothing at all, he would make it happen. He certainly owed her that much after this.