Elisabeth,

If you want to call giving you a reality check being an ass - also you ought to watch your language, it's not proper. I'm not trying to reduce you to anything, Elise, I'm merely pointing out that you have no clue what kind of pressure the rest of us are under and you say all that, you want to be challenged, but if you were actually put into the situation you would be begging to be back in your cushy little finishing school. I'm not sure there's point in arguing with you when you're emotional like this, but you will do something meaningful, even if you do what you're supposed to do and get married and have children and all of that.