His words were mildly reassuring, at least, because it lessened the pressure for her to try and put on a graceful show while she untangled her feelings on the matter. If he had no particular expectations (and especially had not expected her to squeal with delight and assent immediately), then she might be allowed to take a moment and consider this rationally. When she did, she realized very quickly that this matter was too complicated for her to untangle in the span of a few moments.
"Given that this is quite a significant change of circumstance, and arrived at very suddenly, perhaps you'll allow me some time to contemplate the matter?" she asked hopefully. "That is not to imply I have any reason to doubt your friendship, Mr. Ainsworth, of course. Only that — I believe marriage is a very serious matter, and I would be doing a disservice to you, or any man, by agreeing to one lightly."
"Given that this is quite a significant change of circumstance, and arrived at very suddenly, perhaps you'll allow me some time to contemplate the matter?" she asked hopefully. "That is not to imply I have any reason to doubt your friendship, Mr. Ainsworth, of course. Only that — I believe marriage is a very serious matter, and I would be doing a disservice to you, or any man, by agreeing to one lightly."
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