Dear R,
I understand, on both accounts, as an only daughter I remember my fathers disappointment in not having had a son of his own. The things that are a mans to teach to his children that, even though he loved me dearly, he could not have taught to me. It must be such a natural inclination for a man to want his name to carry on. The ancient greeks believed that once a man had both sons and grandsons he was truly immortal, so the feeling is one men have had since the beginning of time. And while I am sure the duties of uncle would be well filled by someone as considerate and contemplative as you seem the role of a parent is such a unique and special role. After all a child may have many uncles, or indeed aunts, but only one father and mother.

I would imagine that a man who has led his family through grief, and has been the families head for so long would be well practiced in the requirements of fatherhood. I would imagine that your siblings, even as they start their own families, will remember to whom they owe the stability and guidence that has allowed them to find their own happiness. Guiding others towards their happiness is a gift onto itself.
Kind Regards
Miss R.

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