So let me get this straight; the poor girl is in the hospital with a serious injury and you just happen to run into her father in her hospital room, where he has every right to be, and you're upset because she didn't chastise him for... assuming your job correctly? Even if he was a bit uncouth about it, I can tell you my mother would raise holy hell if I were in the hospital.

So yes, you sound like a whiny school girl who didn't get asked to the dance at the Coming Out Ball, sorry to tell you mate.