03 May, 1890
Miss Forwar,I'm glad you've found amusement in my suffering. No, I tease—a day spent with a friend is not one I dread, even if my family had other plans for me.
From someone surrounded by socialites and future socialites, the lifestyle seems glamorous but their reality seems more exhausting than anything. Parties are no doubt fun, but much of their time spent is making connections and planning events that they often seem to have very little interest in. I would hate that, wouldn't you? (I, of course, would not blame you if you wouldn't—I understand it's a privilege to become a socialite.)
Making a difference doesn't have to come from one thing. My aunt helps lead charities, and even though she's merely a socialite, I'd say she makes just as much of a difference as a healer. It's different, but it still helps people. I can't say I know why my mother and sister chose their paths, but I'd argue that making a more direct difference is one of their many reasons.
Sincerely,
