I know we haven't spoken in a while, which is an absolute shame, but it seems we've both found ourselves in similar situations within the last couple years. It lead me to reach out and let you know that I've been where you are and I'm here if you need a sympathetic ear.

My sincerest congratulations on your nuptials, even if they were a surprise. I've sent along a fine bottle of wine for you to share with your new husband.