Looking for an UCAB - non-purist - husband that would have been willing to marry down.

My lady was born in 1858, to a MCAB family. I see her as the ambitious sort, but that might not entirely be in the social sort. I am debating if she would lean more towards Socialite or Activist, or a mixture of both. Due to this, I believe her marriage was more of a love match than people would believe.

I'm open with her current relationship with her husband, but I would love to see if I can have anyone play him, or if she could at least have a marital family.