I'm sorry, you're getting married? And I find out through the rumor mill? What's all this about? Why am I just learning about this woman? I have so many questions and I need some answers. We need drinks. Or for the boys to get together. Or both? Let me know.
As long as it is of your own volition, I suppose that will do, but I am very intrigued. It could be worse, marrying an old friend, so you have that going for you. You are a natural with your nephew, it will be fine. It will just take some time for everyone to adjust, believe me there. Drinks it is then. Let me know when is best for you.